In 'Drop the Ball,' Tiffany Dufu shares her transformative journey of embracing imperfection and redefining success. She challenges the societal expectations placed upon women to be perfect and highlights the power of delegation in both personal and professional realms. With humor and honesty, Dufu encourages readers to let go of unnecessary burdens and focus on what truly matters. This refreshing perspective not only empowers women to take control of their lives but also redefines the traditional narrative of 'having it all.' Dive into this inspiring read and discover how to thrive by dropping the unnecessary!
By Tiffany Dufu
Published: 2018
""You can’t do it all, and you shouldn’t try. The key to a fulfilling life is to let go of the illusion of perfection and embrace the power of prioritization.""
Tiffany Dufu's Drop the Ball is a bold and inspiring memoir and manifesto from a renowned voice in the women's leadership movement that shows women how to cultivate the single skill they really need in order to thrive: the ability to let go. Once the poster girl for doing it all, after she had her first child, Tiffany Dufu struggled to accomplish everything she thought she needed to in order to succeed. Like so many driven and talented women who have been brought up to believe that to have it all, they must do it all, Dufu began to feel that achieving her career and personal goals was an impossibility. Eventually, she discovered the solution: letting go. In Drop the Ball, Dufu recounts how she learned to reevaluate expectations, shrink her to-do list, and meaningfully engage the assistance of others—freeing the space she needed to flourish at work and to develop deeper, more meaningful relationships at home. Even though women are half the workforce, they still represent only eighteen per cent of the highest level leaders. The reasons are obvious: just as women reach middle management they are also starting families. Mounting responsibilities at work and home leave them with no bandwidth to do what will most lead to their success. Offering new perspective on why the women’s leadership movement has stalled, and packed with actionable advice, Tiffany Dufu’s Drop the Ball urges women to embrace imperfection, to expect less of themselves and more from others—only then can they focus on what they truly care about, devote the necessary energy to achieving their real goals, and create the type of rich, rewarding life we all desire.
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“"You can’t do it all, and you shouldn’t try. The key to a fulfilling life is to let go of the illusion of perfection and embrace the power of prioritization."”
Drop the Ball
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Tiffany Dufu is an acclaimed author, speaker, and leader in women's empowerment, known for her dynamic and actionable writing style. Her notable works include 'Drop the Ball: Achieving More by Doing Less', where she shares her personal journey and practical strategies to help women practice self-care and prioritize their goals without the pressure of perfection. Dufu is also the CEO of The Cru, a peer coaching community for women, and she has been a prominent advocate for gender equality in the workplace. Her engaging storytelling encourages women to embrace their ambitions and forge their paths to success.
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