In "For the Love of Men," Liz Plank explores the complex relationship between masculinity and modern society, challenging stereotypes that confine men to rigid roles. She invites readers to reimagine masculinity by weaving together personal stories, research, and cultural critiques. Plank boldly discusses the emotional struggles many men face and the societal pressures that shape their identities. With compassion and insight, she presents a vision for a world where men can embrace vulnerability and authenticity. This provocative book encourages everyone to reconsider how society views and treats men, sparking crucial conversations about gender and humanity.
By Liz Plank
Published: 2019
"When we redefine masculinity not as a measure of how well a man can dominate, but as a tapestry of vulnerability, empathy, and strength, we unlock the potential for deeper connections and a more compassionate society."
A nonfiction investigation into masculinity, For The Love of Men provides actionable steps for how to be a man in the modern world, while also exploring how being a man in the world has evolved. In 2019, traditional masculinity is both rewarded and sanctioned. Men grow up being told that boys don’t cry and dolls are for girls (a newer phenomenon than you might realize—gendered toys came back in vogue as recently as the 80s). They learn they must hide their feelings and anxieties, that their masculinity must constantly be proven. They must be the breadwinners, they must be the romantic pursuers. This hasn’t been good for the culture at large: 99% of school shooters are male; men in fraternities are 300% (!) more likely to commit rape; a woman serving in uniform has a higher likelihood of being assaulted by a fellow soldier than to be killed by enemy fire. In For the Love of Men, Liz offers a smart, insightful, and deeply-researched guide for what we're all going to do about toxic masculinity. For both women looking to guide the men in their lives and men who want to do better and just don’t know how, For the Love of Men will lead the conversation on men's issues in a society where so much is changing, but gender roles have remained strangely stagnant. What are we going to do about men? Liz Plank has the answer. And it has the possibility to change the world for men and women alike.
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“When we redefine masculinity not as a measure of how well a man can dominate, but as a tapestry of vulnerability, empathy, and strength, we unlock the potential for deeper connections and a more compassionate society.”
For the Love of Men
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Liz Plank is a journalist, author, and social media personality known for her insightful analysis of gender, politics, and culture. She is the author of the acclaimed book "For the Love of Men: A New Vision for Mindful Masculinity," which explores the complexities of masculinity and advocates for a more compassionate approach to male identity. Plank's writing style is engaging and thought-provoking, often blending personal anecdotes with rigorous research to challenge societal norms. In addition to her books, she has contributed to various platforms including Vox, The New York Times, and MSNBC, where she highlights issues affecting marginalized communities and promotes gender equality.
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