I Love You and I'm Leaving You Anyway
In 'I Love You and I'm Leaving You Anyway,' Tracy McMillan takes readers on an emotional rollercoaster as she navigates the complex landscape of love, loss, and self-discovery. Through poignant anecdotes and raw honesty, she explores the transformative power of letting go of toxic relationships to embrace personal growth. With an unflinching look at the scars of her past, McMillan invites readers to reflect on their own choices in love and life. Will she find the strength to reclaim her happiness, or is true freedom just an illusion? Join her on this gripping journey of resilience and revelation.
By Tracy McMillan
Published: 2011
"Sometimes you have to leave what you love to discover who you truly are."
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Blessed with beauty and brains, television writer Tracy McMillan was not only able to parlay her talents into a killer Hollywood career but also able to attract a rather eclectic assortment of men as well. Unfortunately, the "right" kind of men felt wrong all too often, while the "wrong" ones felt so, so right. The result was three failed marriages and countless catastrophic romances, all by the age of forty. Despite Tracy's successful ascension into the privileged world of pool houses, premieres, and big-time producer deals, she just couldn't break her pattern of questionable choices in matters of the heart. That is, until she finally figured out her relationship with the first man she ever loved: her father, a wildly flamboyant pimp, drug dealer, and convicted felon who spent most of his daughter's life behind bars . . . and until she set about raising the son who taught her everything else she needed to know about men, love, and life. I Love You and I'm Leaving You Anyway is the comic, tragic, unflinchingly real, and ultimately victorious true story of how one woman learned to love herself no matter what. It is an inspiring testament to the power of change that proves we can all grow from even our most flawed relationships.
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Tracy McMillan
Tracy McMillan is an acclaimed author, television writer, and relationship expert based in the United States. She is best known for her thought-provoking books that explore themes of love, family, and personal growth. Her notable works include "I Don't Want to Fight No More," "Why You're Not Married Yet," and "SUMMER Fling," which have resonated with readers seeking insights into modern relationships. McMillan's writing is characterized by its honesty, wit, and relatability, often drawing from her own life experiences to offer poignant commentary on contemporary issues. In addition to her literary contributions, she has written for prominent TV shows, further showcasing her versatility as a storyteller.
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- Authors
- Tracy McMillan
- Published
- February 2011
- Publisher
- Harper Collins
- ISBN
- 0061724599
- Language
- English
- Pages
- 354
- Genres
- Self-HelpOvercoming Relationship ChallengesPersonal GrowthSex and Relationships
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