My Husband Betty
In 'My Husband Betty,' Helen Boyd shares her intimate journey as the wife of a transgender woman, navigating the complexities of love, gender identity, and societal expectations. With raw honesty, she explores the challenges and triumphs of their relationship, revealing the emotional ups and downs of embracing one's true self. As she dismantles traditional notions of gender and marriage, Boyd invites readers to ponder profound questions about identity, intimacy, and acceptance. This memoir is not just a personal narrative, but a broader commentary on the nature of love and the fluidity of gender. Get ready to delve into a story that challenges conventions and celebrates the beauty of authenticity.
By Helen Boyd
Published: 2003
"'Love is not defined by gender, but by the heart's capacity to connect and understand, transcending societal expectations.'"
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My Husband Betty is the first book to explore the relationships of crossdressing men and their female partners. Known traditionally as transvestites, men like Helen Boyd's husband are starting to come out and win the respect of friends, family, and society - even if their behavior still baffles mental health professionals and the crossdressers themselves. Boyd explains the "taxonomy" of the transgendered, the distinct societies within the transgendered community, the effects of the closet, sexuality, and the issues faced by the wives and girlfriends of crossdressing men. Helen's own experience is at the heart of this book, her story complemented and contradicted by interviews with crossdressers, drag queens, "tranny chasers," and other transgendered couples.
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Helen Boyd
Helen Boyd is an acclaimed author and educator known for her insightful exploration of gender identity and queer narratives. She is best known for notable works such as 'My Husband Betty' and 'She's Not the Man I Married,' both of which provide a heartfelt and nuanced look at transgender relationships. Boyd's writing style is characterized by its candid honesty, wit, and a deep understanding of complex human emotions. In addition to her books, she has contributed to various publications discussing LGBTQ+ issues, making her a respected voice in contemporary feminist literature.
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- Authors
- Helen Boyd
- Published
- December 2003
- Publisher
- Seal Press
- ISBN
- 1560255153
- Language
- English
- Pages
- 304
- Genres
- Sex EducationBiographyWomen EmpowermentWomenWomen in TechSex and Relationships
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