Playful Parenting

In "Playful Parenting," psychiatrist Lawrence Cohen reveals the transformative power of play in nurturing deep connections between parents and children. Through imaginative games and heartfelt interactions, he guides caregivers on rediscovering their playful side to better address emotional challenges and behavioral issues. Cohen illustrates how play fosters resilience and opens the door to honest communication, allowing families to navigate conflicts with ease. Packed with practical strategies, the book empowers parents to turn daily moments into enriching experiences that strengthen bonds. Dive into this insightful guide to unlock the joy and creativity that can change your family dynamics forever!

By Lawrence J. Cohen

Published: 2008

"Play is the highest form of research."

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Parents have heard that play is a child's work—but play is not for kids only. As psychologist Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D., demonstrates in this delightful new book, play can be the basis for an innovative and rewarding approach to parenting. From eliciting a giggle during baby's first game of peek-a-boo to cracking jokes with a teenager while hanging out at the mall, Playful Parenting is a complete guide to using play to raise strong, confident children. Have you ever stepped back to watch what really goes on when your children play? As Dr. Cohen points out, play is children's complex and fluid way of exploring the world, communicating hard-to-express feelings, getting close to those they care about, working through stressful situations, and simply blowing off steam. That's why "playful parenting" is so important and so successful in building strong, close bonds between parents and children. Through play we join our kids in their world. We help them express and understand deep emotions, foster connection, aid the process of emotional healing--and have a great time ourselves while we're at it. Anyone can be a playful parent--all it takes is a sense of adventure and a willingness to let down your guard and try something new. After identifying why it can be hard for adults to play, Dr. Cohen discusses how to get down on the floor and join children on their own terms. He covers games, activities, and playful interactions that parents can enjoy with children of all ages, whether it's gazing deep into a baby's eyes, playing chase with a toddler, fantasy play with a grade schooler, or reducing a totally cool teenager to helpless laughter. Playful Parenting also includes illuminating chapters on how to use play to build a child's confidence and self-esteem, how to play through sibling rivalry, and how play can become a part of loving discipline. Written with love and humor, brimming with good advice and revealing anecdotes, and grounded in the latest research, Playful Parenting will make you laugh even as it makes you wise in the ways of being a happy, effective, enthusiastic parent.

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Lawrence J. Cohen

Lawrence J. Cohen is a distinguished author and psychologist, known for his insightful contributions to the fields of child development and parenting. With a focus on fostering emotional intelligence and resilience in children, he has penned several influential books that resonate with parents and educators alike. Cohen's engaging writing style combines respected psychological principles with practical advice, making his work accessible and impactful. He is also a sought-after speaker, sharing his expertise through workshops and presentations worldwide. Through his dedication to promoting healthy child-parent relationships, Lawrence continues to inspire a generation of caregivers to nurture happier, more balanced lives.

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Authors
Lawrence J. Cohen
Published
November 2008
Publisher
Ballantine Books
ISBN
0307489604
Language
English
Pages
322
Genres
Parent Child CommunicationParentingParenting Techniques

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Play is the highest form of research.

Playful Parenting

By Lawrence J. Cohen

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