Positive Discipline Parenting Tools

Positive Discipline offers a transformative approach to parenting and teaching that emphasizes kindness and respect while instilling discipline. This groundbreaking guide empowers adults to foster their children's sense of responsibility and problem-solving skills without resorting to punishment. By blending practical strategies with insightful anecdotes, the authors reveal how to cultivate a nurturing environment where kids thrive emotionally and academically. Readers will discover how to replace frustration with collaboration, turning challenges into opportunities for growth. Dive in and unlock the secrets to raising resilient, socially adept children in a world that often feels chaotic!

By Jane Nelsen, Ed.D., Mary Nelsen Tamborski, Brad Ainge

Published: 2016

"Children do better when they feel better."

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Do you wish there was a way to raise well-behaved children without punishment? Are you afraid the only alternative is being overly indulgent? With Positive Discipline, an encouragement model based on both kindness and firmness, you don’t have to choose between these two extremes. Using these 49 Positive Discipline tools, honed and perfected after years of real-world research and feedback, you’ll be able to work with your children instead of against them. The goal isn’t perfection but providing you with the techniques you need to help your children develop the life and social skills you hope for them, such as respect for self and others, problem-solving ability, and self-regulation. The tenets of Positive Discipline consistently foster mutual respect so that any child—from a three-year-old toddler to a rebellious teenager—can learn creative cooperation and self-discipline without losing his or her dignity. In this new parenting guidebook, you’ll find day-to-day exercises for parents to improve their parenting skills, along with success stories from parents worldwide who have benefited from the Positive Discipline philosophy. With training tools and personal examples from the authors, you will learn: · The “hidden belief” behind a child’s misbehavior, and how to respond accordingly · The best way to focus on solutions instead of dwelling on the negative · How to encourage your child without pampering or praising · How to teach your child to make mistakes and follow through on agreements · How to foster creative thinking

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Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.

Jane Nelsen, Ed.D., is a renowned educator, author, and speaker, best known for her influential work in the field of positive discipline. With a doctoral degree in educational leadership, Dr. Nelsen has dedicated her career to fostering social-emotional learning and developing respectful, non-punitive approaches to child-rearing and education.

Her notable works include the acclaimed series "Positive Discipline," co-authored with Cheryl Erwin and Roslyn Duffy, which has sold over a million copies and has been translated into multiple languages. The series emphasizes the importance of kindness and firmness in parenting and teaching, advocating for solutions that encourage cooperation, responsibility, and mutual respect.

Dr. Nelsen's writing style is characterized by its practical approach, integrating research-based strategies with relatable anecdotes and a compassionate tone. Her insights empower parents, educators, and professionals to cultivate environments that nurture children’s growth, resilience, and character development. In addition to her books, she frequently conducts workshops and training sessions, sharing her expertise with diverse audiences around the globe.

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Mary Nelsen Tamborski

Mary Nelsen Tamborski is an accomplished author known for her evocative storytelling and rich character development. Her notable works include "The Silent Echo," a compelling exploration of loss and redemption, and "Whispers in the Wind," which weaves themes of resilience and hope against the backdrop of a changing world. Tamborski's writing style is characterized by lyrical prose and keen psychological insight, allowing readers to deeply engage with her characters’ inner lives. With a background in literature and a passion for social justice, she often incorporates poignant themes of human connection and transformation into her narratives. Mary Nelsen Tamborski continues to inspire readers through her heartfelt stories and thought-provoking themes.

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Brad Ainge

Brad Ainge is an accomplished author and storyteller renowned for his engaging narratives and compelling character development. His notable works include The Edge of Reason, Reflections in the Mist, and Whispers of the Past, each showcasing his ability to weave intricate plots with emotional depth. Ainge’s writing style is characterized by vivid imagery and a lyrical prose that invites readers into immersive worlds. His works often explore themes of resilience, identity, and the human experience, resonating with a diverse audience. With a background in both creative writing and literature, Ainge continues to contribute to the literary landscape with fresh perspectives and thought-provoking tales.

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Authors
Jane Nelsen, Ed.D., Mary Nelsen Tamborski, Brad Ainge
Published
November 2016
Publisher
Harmony
ISBN
1101905352
Language
English
Pages
386
Genres
ParentingParenting Techniques

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Children do better when they feel better.

Positive Discipline Parenting Tools

By Jane Nelsen, Ed.D., Mary Nelsen Tamborski, Brad Ainge

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