In "Stay with Me," Ayobami Adebayo weaves a haunting tale of love and loss in Nigeria, where societal pressures collide with personal desires. Yejide and Akin, a young couple yearning for a family, find their dreams shattered by the weight of tradition and betrayal. As secrets unravel, their hearts face a relentless test, leading them down a path of desperation and heartbreak. The story unflinchingly explores the complexities of marriage, fidelity, and the human spirit's resilience. Will Yejide and Akin's love endure the storm, or will the forces of fate tear them apart forever?
By Ayobami Adebayo
Published: 2017
"I thought I had time."
“Powerfully magnetic. . . . In the lineage of great works by Chinua Achebe and Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. . . . A thoroughly contemporary—and deeply moving—portrait of a marriage.” —The New York Times Book Review Ilesa, Nigeria. Ever since they first met and fell in love at university, Yejide and Akin have agreed: polygamy is not for them. But four years into their marriage—after consulting fertility doctors and healers, and trying strange teas and unlikely cures—Yejide is still not pregnant. She assumes she still has time—until her in-laws arrive on her doorstep with a young woman they introduce as Akin’s second wife. Furious, shocked, and livid with jealousy, Yejide knows the only way to save her marriage is to get pregnant. Which, finally, she does—but at a cost far greater than she could have dared to imagine. The unforgettable story of a marriage as seen through the eyes of both husband and wife, Stay With Me asks how much we can sacrifice for the sake of family. A New York Times Notable Book One of the Best Books of the Year: NPR, The Wall Street Journal, The Economist, Chicago Tribune, BuzzFeed, Entertainment Weekly, The New York Post, Southern Living, The Skimm A 2017 BEA Buzz Panel Selection A Belletrist Book-of-the-Month A Sarah Jessica Parker Book Club Selection Shortlisted for the 2017 Baileys Women’s Prize for Fiction Shortlisted for the Wellcome Book Prize and the 9mobile Prize for Literature Longlisted for the International Dylan Thomas Prize
Ayobami Adebayo is a talented Nigerian author known for her compelling storytelling and rich character development. Her debut novel, "Stay With Me," was widely acclaimed, winning several awards and being shortlisted for notable prizes, such as the 2017 Bailey's Women's Prize for Fiction. Adebayo’s work often explores themes of love, loss, and the complexities of family dynamics, set against the backdrop of contemporary Nigerian society. She holds a degree in English literature from Obafemi Awolowo University and has received an MFA in Creative Writing from the University of Maryland. Adebayo continues to be a significant voice in modern literature, captivating readers with her poignant narratives and insightful perspectives.
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