The Gardener and the Carpenter
In "The Gardener and the Carpenter," Alison Gopnik challenges conventional parenting wisdom, illustrating the delicate balance between nurturing and shaping a child's growth. Through captivating analogies and rich research, she explores how different approaches to parenting can cultivate resilience and creativity. The book unveils the transformative power of play, emphasizing that children are not merely projects to be perfected. Instead, they are wildflowers, meant to flourish and evolve in their unique ways. With each turn of the page, readers are invited to reconsider what it truly means to guide the next generation.
By Alison Gopnik
Published: 2016
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