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By Alison Gopnik
Published: 2016
"Children are not vases to be filled, but fires to be lit."
"Alison Gopnik, a ... developmental psychologist, [examines] the paradoxes of parenthood from a scientific perspective"--
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“Children are not vases to be filled, but fires to be lit.”
The Gardener and the Carpenter
By Alison Gopnik
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Alison Gopnik is a renowned American psychologist and cognitive scientist, celebrated for her pioneering research on childhood development and learning. A professor at the University of California, Berkeley, she has authored numerous influential books, including "The Scientist in the Crib" and "The Gardener and the Carpenter," which explore the intricate ways in which young children understand the world. Gopnik's work bridges the gap between psychology and philosophy, challenging traditional views on intelligence and creativity. She is also a frequent speaker and writer, contributing to publications like The New York Times and The Atlantic. Through her research, she aims to enlighten parents and educators about the profound capabilities of young minds.
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