The Kid

In 'The Kid', Dan Savage shares a poignant and humorous narrative about his journey to parenthood through adoption. He vividly chronicles the challenges and unexpected joys of raising a child as a gay parent. Savage's candid reflections reveal the complexities of balancing societal expectations with personal desires. The story blends heartfelt anecdotes with sharp wit, making it both relatable and thought-provoking. This memoir invites readers to reconsider the meaning of family and love, all while keeping them laughing and engaged.

By Dan Savage

Published: 2000

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