In 'There Is No Good Card for This', Dr. Kelsey Crowe and Emily McDowell navigate the often awkward terrain of offering comfort during tough times. They challenge the societal norms surrounding grief and show that the best support often comes from genuine, heartfelt connections. With a blend of humor and poignant insights, the authors provide readers with practical tools for meaningful engagement. This book invites you to rethink how you show up for others in their moments of need. Discover the transformative power of empathy and authenticity in a world that often struggles to find the right words.
By Dr. Kelsey Crowe, Emily McDowell
Published: 2017
""Being there for someone often means just showing up, with no need for the perfect words—sometimes, your presence is the most powerful gift you can give.""
The creator of the viral hit "Empathy Cards" teams up with a compassion expert to produce a visually stunning and groundbreaking illustrated guide to help you increase your emotional intelligence and learn how to offer comfort and support when someone you know is in pain. When someone you know is hurting, you want to let her know that you care. But many people don’t know what words to use—or are afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. This thoughtful, instructive guide, from empathy expert Dr. Kelsey Crowe and greeting card maverick Emily McDowell, blends well-researched, actionable advice with the no-nonsense humor and the signature illustration style of McDowell's immensely popular Empathy Cards, to help you feel confident in connecting with anyone experiencing grief, loss, illness, or any other difficult situation. Written in a how-to, relatable, we’ve-all-been-that-deer-in-the-headlights kind of way, There Is No Good Card for This isn’t a spiritual treatise on how to make you a better person or a scientific argument about why compassion matters. It is a helpful illustrated guide to effective compassion that takes you, step by step by step, past the paralysis of thinking about someone in a difficult time to actually doing something (or nothing) with good judgment instead of fear. There Is No Good Card for This features workbook exercises, sample dialogs, and real-life examples from Dr. Crowe’s research, including her popular "Empathy Bootcamps" that give people tools for building relationships when it really counts. Whether it’s a coworker whose mother has died, a neighbor whose husband has been in a car accident, or a friend who is seriously ill, There Is No Good Card for This teaches you how to be the best friend you can be to someone in need.
Dr. Kelsey Crowe is a distinguished author and scholar known for her insightful contributions to the field of psychology and its intersection with literature. She has authored several notable works, including 'Empathy in Action: Understanding Human Connections' and 'The Narrative Mind: Stories that Heal'. Dr. Crowe's writing style is characterized by its blend of academic rigor and accessible prose, making complex ideas relatable to a broad audience. Her work often explores themes of interpersonal relationships, emotional resilience, and the therapeutic potential of storytelling.
Emily McDowell is an accomplished author and illustrator known for her unique blend of humor, empathy, and authenticity. She gained widespread recognition for her bestselling book, 'Emotional Agility', and the accompanying 'Empathy Cards' series, which offer relatable and thoughtful insights about the human experience. McDowell's writing style is characterized by its conversational tone and an ability to tackle poignant themes with wit and warmth, making her work both engaging and accessible. Throughout her career, she has emphasized the importance of connection and understanding in navigating life's challenges.
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