We Are Not Ourselves

In 'We Are Not Ourselves,' Matthew Thomas weaves a poignant narrative about the American Dream, exploring the life of Eileen, a fiercely independent woman navigating family and identity. Set against the backdrop of the 20th century, the story unfolds through the trials of love, loss, and the devastating grip of Alzheimer's disease. As Eileen grapples with her husband's gradual decline, she confronts the illusions of stability and the fragility of human connection. This powerful tale raises profound questions about what it truly means to be ourselves in the face of inevitable change. With rich character development and emotional depth, the novel invites readers to reflect on life's complexities and the enduring strength of the human spirit.

By Matthew Thomas

Published: 2014

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