Fatherneed

In "Fatherneed," authorKyle D. Pruett explores the profound impact that father involvement has on child development, challenging the traditional notion that mothers are the sole nurturers. Pruett combines compelling research with heartfelt anecdotes, revealing how active fathering enhances emotional, social, and cognitive skills in children. The book not only celebrates the essential role of fathers but also exposes the societal biases that have historically marginalized their contributions. With practical insights and a call for greater awareness, "Fatherneed" inspires a reevaluation of parenting dynamics and invites fathers to embrace their vital role. Are you ready to discover the hidden power of fatherhood?

By Kyle Pruett

Published: 2001

"Fathers are not just second adults in the lives of children; they are prioritizers, playmates, and partners."

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Fathers have always parented differently than mothers. In Fatherneed, Dr. Kyle D. Pruett shows mothers and fathers why that difference is so important to a child's physical, cognitive, and emotional development. Drawing on more than two decades of highly acclaimed research at the Yale Child Study Center, and backed up by true stories from actual families, Fatherneed is the essential how-to guide for women and men who wish to promote engaged fathering. This book will help enable fathers to give their children the skills they need to develop into happy and healthy adults. Step by step, Dr. Pruett specifically addresses what a father can do to prepare his marriage, his house, and his emotions for his child's needs, from infancy through the toddler years, childhood, adolescence, and young and mature adulthood. With advice to fathers ranging from how to speak to toddlers so that they listen, to how to avoid the common tendency to reinforce gender stereotypes in young children, to how to maintain a connection with an increasingly autonomous teenager, Fatherneed is the perfect resource for all dads-including divorced fathers, fathers of adopted children, stepfathers, and fathers of special-needs children-as well as moms who want kids who are meaningfully connected to their fathers. With wit, authority, and compassion, Dr. Pruett shows how to be sure that your child gets what only a father can provide.

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Kyle Pruett

Kyle Pruett is a renowned author, psychologist, and child development expert, best known for his work on fatherhood and the positive impact of male involvement in parenting. With a rich background in research and clinical practice, he has dedicated his career to understanding the nuances of child development and family dynamics. Pruett has authored several influential books, including "Fatherneed," which explores the crucial role fathers play in their children's lives. His engaging writing style and evidence-based insights have made him a sought-after speaker at conferences and workshops. Through his work, Pruett continues to inspire parents and educators to foster nurturing relationships that contribute to children's emotional and psychological well-being.

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Authors
Kyle Pruett
Published
May 2001
Publisher
Harmony
ISBN
076790737X
Language
English
Pages
260
Genres
Parenting for FathersMotherhoodParent Child CommunicationWomenParenting

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Fathers are not just second adults in the lives of children; they are prioritizers, playmates, and partners.

Fatherneed

By Kyle Pruett

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