Fighting for Your Marriage
'Fighting for Your Marriage' offers a groundbreaking perspective on relationship dynamics, emphasizing that conflict can be a catalyst for deeper intimacy. Through practical strategies and scientific insights, the authors guide couples to effectively navigate disagreements without escalating tensions. Readers will discover the importance of communication and compromise, learning how to turn arguments into opportunities for growth. This essential guide not only addresses common pitfalls but also reinforces the idea that a thriving marriage requires continuous effort and commitment. Are you ready to transform your relationship struggles into powerful bonding experiences?
By Howard J. Markman, Scott M. Stanley, Susan L. Blumberg
Published: 2010
""In the journey of marriage, it's not the absence of conflict that strengthens the bond, but the ability to navigate through it together with love and understanding.""
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A thorough revision with a new video of couples in action, using the PREP method for strengthening marriage and avoiding divorce court The third edition of the best-selling classic on marriage enhancement and divorce prevention, features the latest research and changes of heart in our culture and society. New and revised, Fighting for Your Marriage is based on the widely acclaimed PREP (Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program) approach. Groundbreaking studies have found that couples can use the strategies of this approach to handle conflict more constructively, protect their happiness, and reduce the odds of breaking up. The book is based on more than twenty years of university research Explores how to apply the PREP approach to any marriage Shows couples how to talk more and fight less, deepen and protect their friendship, and keep the fun alive Reveals what it takes to have a more intimate, sensual relationship and how to clarify and act on priorities The authors have included a wealth of techniques and down-to-earth guidance for all couples who seek to promote greater character and pleasure in their long-term relationships.
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About the Authors
Howard J. Markman
Howard J. Markman is an esteemed author and psychologist, renowned for his contributions to the fields of relationship science and marital therapy. He co-authored several influential books, including 'The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work' and 'Fighting for Your Marriage,' which have been widely praised for their practical insight and research-based strategies. Markman's writing style is characterized by its clarity, empathy, and accessibility, making complex psychological concepts understandable for a general audience. Through his work, he has helped countless couples navigate the challenges of relationships, fostering deeper connection and understanding.
Scott M. Stanley
Scott M. Stanley is an acclaimed author and esteemed scholar known for his contributions to the field of psychology and relationships. He is best recognized for his groundbreaking work on the nature of commitment and the dynamics of intimate relationships, with notable publications including "The Commitment Project" and "The Power of Commitment." Stanley's writing is characterized by its blend of empirical research and accessible prose, making complex psychological concepts relatable to a broad audience. With a Ph.D. in clinical psychology, he has dedicated his career to exploring the foundations of effective relationships and the importance of commitment in fostering lasting connections.
Susan L. Blumberg
Susan L. Blumberg is an acclaimed author known for her engaging narratives and profound character development. With a focus on contemporary social issues, her notable works include 'The Heart of the Matter' and 'Shadows of the Past', both of which have received critical acclaim and have been featured in various literary reviews. Blumberg's writing style is characterized by her lyrical prose and keen insights into human nature, making her stories both relatable and thought-provoking. In addition to her novels, she frequently speaks at literary events and workshops, inspiring aspiring authors with her passion for storytelling.
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- Authors
- Howard J. Markman, Scott M. Stanley, Susan L. Blumberg
- Published
- April 2010
- Publisher
- John Wiley & Sons
- ISBN
- 0470485914
- Language
- English
- Pages
- 469
- Genres
- Marriage AdviceOvercoming Relationship ChallengesCommunication in RelationshipsSex and Relationships
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