Sex at Dawn

In 'Sex at Dawn,' Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha challenge conventional beliefs about human sexuality and monogamy, arguing that our prehistoric ancestors lived in more sexually open and communal societies. The authors explore the evolutionary origins of sexual behavior, shedding light on how agriculture and property changed our intimate relationships. Through a blend of science, anthropology, and psychology, the book raises provocative questions: Are we wired for non-monogamy? What does this mean for modern relationships? Prepare to rethink everything you know about love, sex, and the connections that bind us.

By Christopher Ryan, Cacilda Jetha

Published: 2011

""We are not wired for monogamy; our true nature is one of connection and exploration, challenging the norms that society tries to impose upon us.""

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In this controversial, thought-provoking, and brilliant book, renegade thinkers Christopher Ryan and Cacilda JethÁ debunk almost everything we “know” about sex, weaving together convergent, frequently overlooked evidence from anthropology, archaeology, primatology, anatomy, and psychosexuality to show how far from human nature monogamy really is. In Sex at Dawn, the authors expose the ancient roots of human sexuality while pointing toward a more optimistic future illuminated by our innate capacities for love, cooperation, and generosity.

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Christopher Ryan

Christopher Ryan is an author and speaker best known for co-authoring the provocative book 'Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality,' which challenges conventional views of human sexuality and explores the evolutionary background of sexual behaviors. His writing is characterized by a blend of anthropology, psychology, and social commentary, presented in an engaging and accessible style. Ryan's work has sparked discussions around human relationships and societal norms, and he continues to contribute to the conversation on sexuality, culture, and human evolution through various media.

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Cacilda Jetha

Cacilda Jetha is a renowned author and psychologist, celebrated for her insightful exploration of human relationships and intimacy. She is the co-author of the critically acclaimed book "The New Male Female Relationship: The Power of the Feminine in a Post-Feminist World" and co-creator of the popular work "Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex—and What We’re Getting Wrong," which delves into the complexities of sexual dynamics and the pursuit of deeper connections. Jetha's writing is characterized by its blend of psychological theory and practical advice, aiming to empower readers to cultivate healthier relationships and embrace sexual authenticity. With a background that combines academia and real-world experience, her approach is both empathetic and thought-provoking, making her a thought leader in discussions on modern intimacy.

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Authors
Christopher Ryan, Cacilda Jetha
Published
July 2011
Publisher
Harper Collins
ISBN
0061707813
Language
English
Pages
434
Genres
Sex EducationPsychologySex and RelationshipsRelationship Psychology

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"We are not wired for monogamy; our true nature is one of connection and exploration, challenging the norms that society tries to impose upon us."

Sex at Dawn

By Christopher Ryan, Cacilda Jetha

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