How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk
In "How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk," communication experts Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish unveil essential strategies for bridging the generational divide. This transformative guide offers practical tools that empower parents to foster open dialogue, encouraging teens to express themselves honestly. Through relatable anecdotes and engaging techniques, readers discover how to navigate difficult conversations without conflict. The book emphasizes empathy and respect, reshaping interactions to strengthen trust and understanding. Unlock the secrets to connecting with your teen—your journey to better communication starts here!
By Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish
Published: 2010
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The renowned #1 New York Times bestselling authors share their advice and expertise with parents and teens in this accessible, indispensable guide to surviving adolescence. Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish transformed parenting with their breakthrough, bestselling books Siblings Without Rivalry and How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk. Now, they return with this essential guide that tackles the tough issues teens and parents face today. Filled with straightforward advice and written in their trademark, down-to-earth style sure to appeal to both parents and teens, this all-new volume offers both innovative, easy-to-implement suggestions and proven techniques to build the foundation for lasting relationships. From curfews and cliques to sex and drugs, it gives parents the tools to help their children safely navigate the often stormy years of adolescence.
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Adele Faber
Adele Faber is a renowned author and educator, best known for her influential works on parenting and communication. She gained widespread recognition with her co-authored book, "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk," which has become a seminal guide for parents and educators seeking effective communication strategies with children. Faber's writing is characterized by its practical approach, combining psychological insights with relatable anecdotes, making complex ideas accessible to a broad audience. Alongside co-author Elaine Mazlish, she has published several other notable works, including "Siblings Without Rivalry" and "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen". Faber's empathetic and engaging style has not only resonated with readers but has also established her as a leading voice in parenting literature. Through workshops and seminars, she continues to empower parents and educators, fostering healthier interactions and relationships in family dynamics.
Elaine Mazlish
Elaine Mazlish is a renowned author and educator, best known for her contributions to the field of parenting and communication. Her prolific work focuses on fostering healthy relationships and effective communication within families. Alongside her late husband, she co-authored the influential book "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk," which has become a cornerstone resource for parents and educators alike. Their collaboration emphasizes empowering parents with practical strategies to nurture cooperative and respectful interactions with children.
Mazlish’s writing is characterized by its clear, accessible style, combining insightful psychological principles with practical advice that resonates with readers. Her other notable works include "Siblings Without Rivalry" and "How to Talk So Kids Can Learn," which further reflect her commitment to enhancing familial and educational dynamics. Through her engaging narratives and actionable guidance, Elaine Mazlish continues to inspire countless individuals seeking to strengthen their communication skills and deepen their connections with children and peers.
Book Details
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- Authors
- Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish
- Published
- September 2010
- Publisher
- Harper Collins
- ISBN
- 0062046411
- Language
- English
- Pages
- 224
- Genres
- Parent Child CommunicationParentingTeen ParentingCommunication
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