It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken

In 'It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken,' Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt deliver a refreshing perspective on navigating heartbreak. With humor and heartfelt advice, the authors guide readers through the tumultuous emotions of a breakup. They dismantle the myths of love and relationships, encouraging self-discovery and empowerment. This book is not just a manual for healing; it’s an invitation to reclaim your happiness. Are you ready to turn the page on pain and embrace a brighter future?

By Greg Behrendt, Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt

Published: 2006

""Sometimes you have to break your own heart to understand what it truly means to love yourself.""

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A must-have manual for finding your way back to an even more rocking you. Greg and his wife, Amiira, share their hilarious and helpful roadmap for getting past the heartache and back into the game. From Greg Behrendt, the co-author of the smash two-million copy bestseller He’s Just Not That Into You, comes It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken. There’s no doubt about it—breakups suck. But in the first few hours or days or weeks that follow, there’s one important truth you need to recognize: Some things can’t and shouldn’t be fixed, especially that loser who dumped you or forced you to dump him. Starting right here, right now, it’s time to dry your tears, and open this book to Chapter One–and start turning your breakup into a breakover. The ultimate survival guide to getting over Mr. Wrong and reclaiming your inner Superfox. From how to put yourself through “he-tox,” to how to throw yourself a kick-ass pity party, and reframing reality— seeing the relationship for what it was. Complete with an essential workbook to help you put your emotions down on paper and heal.

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Greg Behrendt

Greg Behrendt is an acclaimed author, comedian, and television writer best known for his insightful and humorous explorations of relationships and self-empowerment. He gained fame as the co-author of the bestselling self-help book 'He's Just Not That Into You,' which inspired a popular film adaptation. Behrendt's other notable works include 'It's Just a Jump to the Left: And Then a Step to the Right' and 'The Date Night Cookbook.' His writing style is characterized by a blend of wit, humor, and candid advice, making complex emotions and social dynamics accessible to a broad audience.

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Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt

Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt is an accomplished author known for her thought-provoking narratives and lyrical prose. Her notable works include 'Lillian's Garden', which explores themes of memory and identity, and 'The Wind's Whisper', a poignant meditation on grief and healing. Ruotola-Behrendt's writing style blends rich imagery with deep emotional resonance, often examining the complexities of human relationships and the intricacies of cultural identity. She has received recognition for her contributions to contemporary literature and continues to inspire readers with her insightful storytelling.

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Authors
Greg Behrendt, Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt
Published
September 2006
Publisher
Harmony
ISBN
0767921968
Language
English
Pages
290
Genres
Self-HelpOvercoming Relationship ChallengesSex and RelationshipsHealthy Boundaries

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"Sometimes you have to break your own heart to understand what it truly means to love yourself."

It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken

By Greg Behrendt, Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt

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