Loving Our Kids on Purpose

In "Loving Our Kids on Purpose," Danny Silk presents a groundbreaking approach to parenting that emphasizes intentional love and connection over traditional discipline. By integrating principles of empowerment and personal responsibility, parents can cultivate environments where children thrive emotionally and socially. Silk challenges the conventional parenting mindset, encouraging readers to break free from cycles of control and fear. Through compelling anecdotes and practical tools, he illustrates how to foster deep, meaningful relationships with kids while guiding them to make wise choices. Discover how love can transform parent-child dynamics and lead to a more harmonious family life!

By Danny Silk

Published: 2009

"Discipline is not about punishment; it’s about training."

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Here is a fresh look at the age-old role of parenting.Loving Our Kids on Purpose brings the principles of the Kingdom of God and revival into our strategy as parents. 2 Corinthians 3:17 tells us that Where the Spirit of the Lord is there is freedom. Most parenting approaches train children to learn to accept being controlled by well meaning parents and adults. Unfortunately, God is not going to control us as we gain independence from our parents.We must learn to control ourselves.This book will teach parents to train their children to manage their freedoms and protect their important heart to heart relationships.

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Danny Silk

Danny Silk is an accomplished author, speaker, and leadership consultant known for his insights on relational dynamics and personal growth. He is the co-founder of Loving on Purpose, an organization dedicated to equipping individuals and families to build healthy, thriving relationships. Silk has authored several influential books, including "Keeping Your Love On" and "Silk’s Love After Marriage," which focus on communication and connection in both personal and professional contexts. With a passion for helping others cultivate emotional intelligence, he travels extensively to share his message of love, empowerment, and effective relationships. Danny lives with his family in Redding, California, where he continues to inspire many through his teachings and workshops.

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Authors
Danny Silk
Published
December 2009
Publisher
Destiny Image Publishers
ISBN
0768496691
Language
English
Pages
155
Genres
Parent Child CommunicationParentingParenting Techniques

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Discipline is not about punishment; it’s about training.

Loving Our Kids on Purpose

By Danny Silk

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