Loving What Is

In 'Loving What Is', Byron Katie presents a transformative approach to self-inquiry that challenges our deepest beliefs and assumptions. Through her groundbreaking work, she introduces the four questions that reveal how our thoughts create suffering and limit our happiness. Katie's method encourages readers to question their reality, leading to profound insights and emotional liberation. With poignant examples and practical exercises, this book inspires a radical shift in perspective, inviting us to embrace life as it is. Discover how letting go of resistance can unlock a path to unshakeable peace and joy.

By Byron Katie

Published: 2003

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