Loving What Is
In 'Loving What Is', Byron Katie presents a transformative approach to self-inquiry that challenges our deepest beliefs and assumptions. Through her groundbreaking work, she introduces the four questions that reveal how our thoughts create suffering and limit our happiness. Katie's method encourages readers to question their reality, leading to profound insights and emotional liberation. With poignant examples and practical exercises, this book inspires a radical shift in perspective, inviting us to embrace life as it is. Discover how letting go of resistance can unlock a path to unshakeable peace and joy.
By Byron Katie
Published: 2003
"“When you argue with reality, you lose—but only 100% of the time.”"
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Introducing an innovative four-pronged approach to self-liberation, this intriguing guide shows how to dissolve the debilitating stories we tell ourselves, which in turn allows the truth of "what is" to give rise to a life of new fulfillment and happiness. Reprint. 30,000 first printing.
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Byron Katie
Byron Katie is an American speaker and author known for her work in the field of self-inquiry and personal transformation. She is the creator of a method called 'The Work,' which enables individuals to identify and question the thoughts that cause their suffering. Katie has written several notable books, including 'Loving What Is,' 'I Need Your Love—Is That True?' and 'A Thousand Names for Joy.' Her writing is characterized by a conversational style that invites readers to engage in deep introspection and self-discovery, often blending personal anecdotes with profound philosophical insights.
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- Authors
- Byron Katie
- Published
- December 2003
- Publisher
- Harmony
- ISBN
- 1400045371
- Language
- English
- Pages
- 354
- Genres
- Self-HelpMindfulnessEmotional IntelligencePersonal GrowthMindful Living
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Loving What Is
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