On Grief and Grieving

In 'On Grief and Grieving', Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and David Kessler explore the profound, often bewildering experience of loss. Their revolutionary work identifies the five stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance, providing a roadmap for those navigating through mourning. With compassion and insight, they encourage readers to embrace their emotions rather than suppress them. This book is not just a guide to understanding grief, but also a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit. Discover how to find meaning and healing amidst heartache, and unlock the pathways to emotional recovery.

By Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, David Kessler

Published: 2014

"The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not ‘get over’ the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same."

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Ten years after the death of Elisabeth K bler-Ross, this commemorative edition of her final book combines practical wisdom, case studies, and the authors' own experiences and spiritual insight to explain how the process of grieving helps us live with loss. Includes a new introduction and resources section. Elisabeth K bler-Ross's On Death and Dying changed the way we talk about the end of life. Before her own death in 2004, she and David Kessler completed On Grief and Grieving, which looks at the way we experience the process of grief. Just as On Death and Dying taught us the five stages of death--denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance--On Grief and Grieving applies these stages to the grieving process and weaves together theory, inspiration, and practical advice, including sections on sadness, hauntings, dreams, isolation, and healing. This is "a fitting finale and tribute to the acknowledged expert on end-of-life matters" (Good Housekeeping).

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Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross was a Swiss-American psychiatrist and author, best known for her groundbreaking work on the topics of death and dying. Her most notable work, 'On Death and Dying' (1969), introduced the five stages of grief—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance—which has deeply influenced the fields of psychology, counseling, and healthcare. Kübler-Ross's writing style is characterized by a compassionate and empathetic approach, blending personal anecdotes with clinical observations, helping readers navigate the complexities of life's end. Throughout her career, she authored more than 20 books, including 'Death: The Final Stage of Growth' and 'The Wheel of Life,' and she remained a fervent advocate for changing perceptions around death, promoting openness and acceptance.

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David Kessler

David Kessler is an acclaimed author and expert in the fields of grief and loss, known for his profound insights and compassionate approach to understanding the complexities of human emotions. His notable works include 'Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief' and 'The Needs of the Dying', in which he blends personal narratives with practical guidance on coping with bereavement. Kessler's writing style is characterized by its clarity, empathy, and depth, allowing readers to connect with their experiences of loss and healing.

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Authors
Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, David Kessler
Published
August 2014
Publisher
Simon and Schuster
ISBN
1476775559
Language
English
Pages
272
Genres
Mental HealthSelf-HelpHealth and WellnessEmotional Intelligence

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The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not ‘get over’ the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same.

On Grief and Grieving

By Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, David Kessler

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