The Art of Loving
In 'The Art of Loving', Erich Fromm explores love as an art that requires practice and devotion, not just a feeling. He dissects the misconceptions of modern love, revealing how consumerism and selfishness hinder genuine connections. Fromm categorizes different types of love, including romantic, familial, and self-love, emphasizing their importance in achieving personal fulfillment and societal harmony. His insightful analysis challenges readers to reflect on their approach to love and relationships. This thought-provoking work invites you to rethink what it truly means to love and be loved.
By Erich Fromm
Published: 2006
"Love is not something that is given to us. It is a skill that we must cultivate."
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The fiftieth Anniversary Edition of the groundbreaking international bestseller that has shown millions of readers how to achieve rich, productive lives by developing their hidden capacities for love Most people are unable to love on the only level that truly matters: love that is compounded of maturity, self-knowledge, and courage. As with every art, love demands practice and concentration, as well as genuine insight and understanding. In his classic work, The Art of Loving, renowned psychoanalyst and social philosopher Erich Fromm explores love in all its aspects—not only romantic love, steeped in false conceptions and lofty expectations, but also brotherly love, erotic love, self-love, the love of God, and the love of parents for their children.
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Erich Fromm
Erich Fromm (1900-1980) was a prominent German-American social psychologist, psychoanalyst, and humanistic philosopher. Best known for his works on the intersection of psychology and philosophy, Fromm's ideas delved into the nature of love, freedom, and the complexities of human existence. Notable works include 'The Art of Loving', 'Escape from Freedom', and 'The Sane Society', where he combines insights from psychoanalysis, sociology, and Marxism to explore themes of individualism and societal pressures. His writing style is characterized by its accessibility and depth, combining rigorous intellectual argumentation with a compassionate understanding of human nature.
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- Authors
- Erich Fromm
- Published
- November 2006
- Publisher
- Harper Perennial Modern Classics
- ISBN
- 0061129739
- Language
- English
- Pages
- 184
- Genres
- Self-HelpOvercoming Relationship ChallengesCommunication in RelationshipsSex and RelationshipsHealthy Boundaries
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