The Game

In 'The Game,' Neil Strauss delves into the underground world of pickup artists and their mysterious techniques for seduction. As he transforms from an average man into a master of charm, readers are taken on a wild journey filled with eccentric characters and surprising revelations. The book uncovers the psychology behind attraction and self-confidence, challenging societal norms about relationships. Yet, as Strauss dives deeper, he grapples with the darker, addictive nature of the game itself. Will the pursuit of love lead to fulfillment or a relentless cycle of manipulation?

By Neil Strauss

Published: 2005

""The real game isn’t about seduction; it’s about understanding yourself and the people around you.""

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Hidden somewhere, in nearly every major city in the world, is an underground seduction lair. And in these lairs, men trade the most devastatingly effective techniques ever invented to charm women. This is not fiction. These men really exist. They live together in houses known as Projects. And Neil Strauss, the bestselling author, spent two years living among them, using the pseudonym Style to protect his real-life identity. The result is one of the most explosive and controversial books of the year -- guaranteed to change the lives of men and transform the way women understand the opposite sex forever. On his journey from AFC (average frustrated chump) to PUA (pick-up artist) to PUG (pick-up guru), Strauss not only shares scores of original seduction techniques but also has unforgettable encounters with the likes of Tom Cruise, Britney Spears, Paris Hilton, Heidi Fleiss, and Courtney Love. And then things really start to get strange -- and passions lead to betrayals lead to violence. The Game is the story of one man's transformation from frog to prince -- to prisoner in the most unforgettable book of the year.

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Neil Strauss

Neil Strauss is a bestselling author and journalist known for his provocative and immersive writing style. He gained widespread recognition with his books 'The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists' and 'Rules of the Game,' which explore the worlds of dating and self-improvement. Strauss's work often combines personal narrative with investigative journalism, as seen in titles like 'Emergency: This Book Will Save Your Life' and 'The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships.' His ability to blend humor, insight, and candid storytelling has garnered a diverse readership, making him a prominent figure in contemporary non-fiction.

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Authors
Neil Strauss
Published
September 2005
Publisher
Harper Collins
ISBN
0060554738
Language
English
Pages
466
Genres
Self-HelpDating and RomanceSex and RelationshipsRelationship Psychology

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The Game

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