This Is How You Lose Her

In 'This Is How You Lose Her,' Junot Díaz intricately weaves the compelling stories of Yunior, a charismatic yet flawed Dominican-American man navigating the treacherous waters of love and betrayal. As he grapples with the remnants of his relationships, particularly with women who slip through his fingers, readers are drawn into the raw reality of passion intertwined with painful missteps. This collection of interconnected tales shines a light on the complexities of identity, cultural expectations, and the scars left by heartbreak. With Díaz's signature fusion of humor and poignancy, each story challenges the reader to reflect on the ways love can both uplift and devastate. What happens when the greatest love stories are marred by the relentless pursuit of personal redemption?

By Junot Díaz

Published: 2013

"You want to see me at my best? Let me tell you about my worst."

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Finalist for the 2012 National Book Award A Time and People Top 10 Book of 2012 Finalist for the 2012 Story Prize Chosen as a notable or best book of the year by The New York Times, Entertainment Weekly, The LA Times, Newsday, Barnes & Noble, Amazon, the iTunes bookstore, and many more... "Electrifying." –The New York Times Book Review “Exhibits the potent blend of literary eloquence and street cred that earned him a Pulitzer Prize… Díaz’s prose is vulgar, brave, and poetic.” –O Magazine From the award-winning author, a stunning collection that celebrates the haunting, impossible power of love. On a beach in the Dominican Republic, a doomed relationship flounders. In a New Jersey laundry room, a woman does her lover’s washing and thinks about his wife. In Boston, a man buys his love child, his only son, a first baseball bat and glove. At the heart of these stories is the irrepressible, irresistible Yunior, a young hardhead whose longing for love is equaled only by his recklessness--and by the extraordinary women he loves and loses. In prose that is endlessly energetic, inventive, tender, and funny, these stories lay bare the infinite longing and inevitable weakness of the human heart. They remind us that passion always triumphs over experience, and that “the half-life of love is forever.”

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Junot Díaz

Junot Díaz is a Pulitzer Prize-winning author known for his vibrant storytelling and unique narrative voice that blends English and Spanish. He gained international acclaim for his debut novel, "The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao," which explores themes of identity, migration, and the Dominican-American experience. Díaz's work often features richly developed characters and a keen sense of cultural irony, marked by a mix of humor and tragedy. In addition to his novels, Díaz has published several short stories and essays, including those in the acclaimed collection "Drown." His writing style is characterized by a conversational tone, blending realism with speculative elements, and he is celebrated for his contributions to contemporary literature.

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Authors
Junot Díaz
Published
September 2013
Publisher
Penguin
ISBN
1594631778
Language
English
Pages
242
Genres
Short StoriesContemporary FictionLiteratureFiction

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You want to see me at my best? Let me tell you about my worst.

This Is How You Lose Her

By Junot Díaz

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