This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage

In 'This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage,' Ann Patchett invites readers into her intimate reflections on love, commitment, and the complexities of relationships. Through a series of personal essays, she intertwines the joys and challenges of marriage with her own life experiences, revealing profound insights into human connection. Patchett's storytelling is both poignant and humorous, drawing you into her world where every anecdote is a lesson in resilience. Explore how the facets of family, friendship, and art shape the bond between partners. This book will leave you pondering the true essence of happiness in a marriage.

By Ann Patchett

Published: 2014

""Marriage is not about finding the person you can live with; it’s about finding the person you can’t live without.""

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Reese Witherspoon Book Club Pick Blending literature and memoir, Ann Patchett, author of State of Wonder, Run, and Bel Canto, examines her deepest commitments—to writing, family, friends, dogs, books, and her husband—creating a resonant portrait of a life in This is the Story of a Happy Marriage. This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage takes us into the very real world of Ann Patchett’s life. Stretching from her childhood to the present day, from a disastrous early marriage to a later happy one, it covers a multitude of topics, including relationships with family and friends, and charts the hard work and joy of writing, and the unexpected thrill of opening a bookstore. As she shares stories of the people, places, ideals, and art to which she has remained indelibly committed, Ann Patchett brings into focus the large experiences and small moments that have shaped her as a daughter, wife, and writer.

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Ann Patchett

Ann Patchett is an acclaimed American author known for her insightful explorations of relationships and the complexities of human experience. Her notable works include the bestselling novels 'Bel Canto,' which won the PEN/Faulkner Award, and 'Commonwealth,' a finalist for the National Book Award. Patchett's writing style is characterized by its lyrical prose and deep emotional resonance, often weaving together themes of love, loss, and the intricacies of family dynamics. In addition to her novels, she is a respected essayist and co-owner of Parnassus Books in Nashville, Tennessee.

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Authors
Ann Patchett
Published
October 2014
Publisher
Harper Perennial
ISBN
0062236687
Language
English
Pages
N/A
Genres
Marriage AdviceSelf-HelpSex and RelationshipsRelationship Psychology

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"Marriage is not about finding the person you can live with; it’s about finding the person you can’t live without."

This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage

By Ann Patchett

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