Committed
In 'Committed,' Elizabeth Gilbert explores the complexities of marriage through her own journey of love and commitment. After a whirlwind romance, she finds herself questioning the very institution of marriage. As she delves into historical and cultural perspectives, Gilbert uncovers the fears and expectations that intertwine with love. Her reflections are both humorous and profound, inviting readers to reassess their own beliefs about commitment. This deeply personal narrative leaves you wondering: can love truly thrive within the confines of marital vows?
By Elizabeth Gilbert
Published: 2011
""Love is not a competition, and it is not a contract. It is a connection. And sometimes, to knit two lives together, you must first untangle them from the past.""
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The #1 New York Times bestselling follow-up to Eat, Pray, Love--an intimate and erudite celebration of love—from the author of Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear. At the end of her memoir Eat, Pray, Love, Elizabeth Gilbert fell in love with Felipe, a Brazilian living in Indonesia. The couple swore eternal love, but also swore (as skittish divorce survivors) never to marry. However, providence intervened in the form of a U.S. government ultimatum: get married, or Felipe could never enter America again. Told with Gilbert's trademark humor and intelligence, this fascinating meditation on compatibility and fidelity chronicles Gilbert's complex and sometimes frightening journey into second marriage, and will enthrall the millions of readers who made Eat, Pray, Love a number one bestseller.
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Elizabeth Gilbert
Elizabeth Gilbert is an acclaimed American author best known for her memoir "Eat, Pray, Love," which chronicles her journey of self-discovery across Italy, India, and Indonesia. Born on July 18, 1969, in Waterbury, Connecticut, Gilbert has a diverse literary background, including novels, essays, and short stories. Her writing often explores themes of creativity, spirituality, and the quest for personal fulfillment. In addition to her bestselling memoir, she has written other notable works, such as "Big Magic" and "The Signature of All Things." Gilbert's engaging storytelling and candid insight into the human experience have earned her a dedicated global following.
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- Authors
- Elizabeth Gilbert
- Published
- February 2011
- Publisher
- Penguin
- ISBN
- 0143118706
- Language
- English
- Pages
- 36
- Genres
- Marriage AdviceSex and RelationshipsRelationship Psychology
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