'Getting the Love You Want' unveils the secrets to transforming relationships through deep emotional connection and effective communication. Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt offer practical exercises designed to help couples understand their unmet childhood needs, paving the way to true healing and intimacy. The latest edition features new insights and tools for addressing common relationship conflicts and enhancing partnership dynamics. Discover how to break free from destructive patterns and create a nurturing bond filled with love and acceptance. This guide is a revolutionary roadmap for anyone seeking to revitalize their romantic life and foster lasting happiness.
By Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD
Published: 2019
""The path to love is a journey of self-discovery; when we heal our past, we open our hearts to the love we truly deserve.""
The New York Times bestselling guide to transforming an intimate relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship, now fully revised with a new forward and a brand new chapter. Getting the Love You Want has helped millions of people experience more satisfying relationships and is recommended every day by professional therapists and happy couples around the world. Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt explain how to revive romance and remove negativity from daily interactions, to help you: · Discover why you chose your mate · Resolve the power struggle that prevents greater intimacy · Learn to listen – really listen – to your partner · Increase fun and laughter in your relationship · Begin healing early childhood experiences by stretching into new behaviors · Become passionate friends with your partner · Achieve a common vision of your dream relationship Become the most connected couple you know with this revolutionary guide, combining behavioral science, depth psychology, social learning theory, Gestalt therapy, and interpersonal neuroscience to help you and your partner recapture joy, enhance closeness, and experience the reward of a deeply fulfilling relationship.
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“"The path to love is a journey of self-discovery; when we heal our past, we open our hearts to the love we truly deserve."”
Getting the Love You Want
By Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD
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Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., is a prominent author, speaker, and therapist, renowned for his work in the field of relationship and marriage counseling. He is best known for his influential books, including "Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples," which outlines his Imago Relationship Therapy approach. With a writing style that blends psychological insight with practical advice, Hendrix empowers individuals and couples to heal their relationships and foster lasting connections. His work has inspired countless readers worldwide, making him a leading voice in the realm of relationship education and therapy.
Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD, is a renowned author, activist, and leader in the field of relational cultural theory. With a career spanning several decades, she is celebrated for her contributions to interpersonal psychology and women's studies. Notable works include 'The Woman's Way Home: A Guide to Heart-Centered Living,' and 'The Beatrice on the Business of Life,' where she emphasizes the importance of connection and empathy in personal and professional relationships. Hunt's writing style is characterized by an engaging, accessible tone that invites readers to explore complex psychological concepts through personal narratives and practical insights.
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