In "Triumphs of Experience," George E. Vaillant unveils decades of psychological research to reveal the secrets of a fulfilling life. Through the lens of a famous long-term study, he explores how love, work, and resilience shape our happiness. Vaillant's findings challenge conventional wisdom, showing that emotional intelligence and strong relationships are the true keys to success. This captivating work intertwines personal stories with scientific insight, inviting readers to reflect on their own life journeys. What if the greatest triumphs lie not in professional accolades, but in the connections we cultivate?
By George E. Vaillant
Published: 2015
""Happiness lies in the joy of achievement and the thrill of creative effort.""
At a time when many people around the world are living into their tenth decade, the longest longitudinal study of human development ever undertaken offers some welcome news for the new old age: our lives continue to evolve in our later years, and often become more fulfilling than before. Begun in 1938, the Grant Study of Adult Development charted the physical and emotional health of over 200 men, starting with their undergraduate days. The now-classic Adaptation to Life reported on the men’s lives up to age 55 and helped us understand adult maturation. Now George Vaillant follows the men into their nineties, documenting for the first time what it is like to flourish far beyond conventional retirement. Reporting on all aspects of male life, including relationships, politics and religion, coping strategies, and alcohol use (its abuse being by far the greatest disruptor of health and happiness for the study’s subjects), Triumphs of Experience shares a number of surprising findings. For example, the people who do well in old age did not necessarily do so well in midlife, and vice versa. While the study confirms that recovery from a lousy childhood is possible, memories of a happy childhood are a lifelong source of strength. Marriages bring much more contentment after age 70, and physical aging after 80 is determined less by heredity than by habits formed prior to age 50. The credit for growing old with grace and vitality, it seems, goes more to ourselves than to our stellar genetic makeup.
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George E. Vaillant is a prominent American psychiatrist and author known for his groundbreaking work in the field of adult development and aging. He is best known for his books, including 'Adaptation to Life', 'The Wisdom of the Ego', and 'Triumphs of Experience', which explore the complexities of human emotions and the factors contributing to well-being across the lifespan. Vaillant's writing is characterized by a warm, insightful tone and a strong reliance on empirical research, making complex psychological concepts accessible to a broad audience. His work emphasizes the importance of resilience, relationships, and the lasting impact of early life experiences.
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