While I Was Gone

'While I Was Gone' by Sue Miller delves into the life of Jo, a woman whose seemingly perfect suburban existence is shattered when a figure from her tumultuous past resurfaces. As memories of her former life creep back in, Jo grapples with the heavy shadows of betrayal and forgiveness. The complexities of marriage, fidelity, and the struggles for self-identity are intricately woven throughout the narrative. Miller expertly explores the fragility of domestic bliss and the consequences of long-buried secrets. Can Jo confront her past and redefine her future before it's too late?

By Sue Miller

Published: 2000

"The past is a place that we carry within us, shaping our present choices and desires, often in ways we cannot fully comprehend."

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“Riveting . . . While I Was Gone [celebrates] what is impulsive in human nature.” –The New York Times “Miller weaves her themes of secrecy, betrayal, and forgiveness into a narrative that shines.” –Time Jo Becker has every reason to be content. She has three dynamic daughters, a loving marriage, and a rewarding career. But she feels a sense of unease. Then an old housemate reappears, sending Jo back to a distant past when she lived in a communal house in Cambridge, Massachusetts. Drawn deeper into her memories of that fateful summer in 1968, Jo begins to obsess about the person she once was. As she is pulled farther from her present life, her husband, and her world, Jo struggles against becoming enveloped by her past and its dark secret. “[While I Was Gone] swoops gracefully between the past and the present, between a woman’s complex feelings about her husband and her equally complex fantasies–and fears–about another man. . . . [Miller writes] well about the trials of faith.” –The New York Times Book Review “Quietly gripping . . . Jo shines steadily as the flawed and thoroughly modern heroine. As in her 1986 novel, The Good Mother, Miller shows how impulses can fracture the family.” –USA Today “Marvelous . . . poignant . . . powerful.” –Seattle Times/Post Intelligencer

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Sue Miller

Sue Miller is an acclaimed American novelist, celebrated for her insightful exploration of human relationships and the complexities of family dynamics. Her notable works include 'The Good Mother', which examines the challenges of motherhood and personal sacrifice, 'While I Was Gone', a poignant story delving into themes of love and loss, and 'The Last Days of Dogtown', a historical fictional narrative set in early 19th century Massachusetts. Miller's writing is renowned for its emotional depth and rich character development, often blending personal and historical elements to create resonant, thought-provoking stories.

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Authors
Sue Miller
Published
May 2000
Publisher
Ballantine Books
ISBN
0345443284
Language
English
Pages
306
Genres
DramaContemporary FictionFictionLiterature

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The past is a place that we carry within us, shaping our present choices and desires, often in ways we cannot fully comprehend.

While I Was Gone

By Sue Miller

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