Why Not Me?

In 'Why Not Me?', Mindy Kaling invites readers into the hilarious and chaotic journey of her life as a successful writer and actress. With her signature wit, she tackles the trials of navigating Hollywood, the ups and downs of friendships, and the challenges of being a woman of color in a predominantly white industry. Kaling's anecdotes are not just funny; they reveal her unique perspective on confidence and self-acceptance. She questions societal norms and encourages readers to pursue their passions fearlessly. This book is a delightful mix of humor and empowerment that leaves you wondering: Why not you?

By Mindy Kaling

Published: 2016

"I'm just trying to be the best version of myself, while also figuring out what that even means."

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#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • From the author of Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? and creator of The Mindy Project and Never Have I Ever comes a hilarious collection of essays about her ongoing journey to find contentment and excitement in her adult life. “This is Kaling at the height of her power.”—USA Today In Why Not Me?, Kaling shares insightful, deeply personal stories about falling in love at work, seeking new friendships in lonely places, attempting to be the first person in history to lose weight without any behavior modification whatsoever, and believing that you have a place in Hollywood when you’re constantly reminded that no one looks like you. In “How to Look Spectacular: A Starlet’s Confessions,” Kaling gives her tongue-in-cheek secrets for surefire on-camera beauty, (“Your natural hair color may be appropriate for your skin tone, but this isn’t the land of appropriate–this is Hollywood, baby. Out here, a dark-skinned woman’s traditional hair color is honey blonde.”) “Player” tells the story of Kaling being seduced and dumped by a female friend in L.A. (“I had been replaced by a younger model. And now they had matching bangs.”) In “Unlikely Leading Lady,” she muses on America’s fixation with the weight of actresses, (“Most women we see onscreen are either so thin that they’re walking clavicles or so huge that their only scenes involve them breaking furniture.”) And in “Soup Snakes,” Kaling spills some secrets on her relationship with her ex-boyfriend and close friend, B.J. Novak (“I will freely admit: my relationship with B.J. Novak is weird as hell.”) Mindy turns the anxieties, the glamour, and the celebrations of her second coming-of-age into a laugh-out-loud funny collection of essays that anyone who’s ever been at a turning point in their life or career can relate to. And those who’ve never been at a turning point can skip to the parts where she talks about meeting Bradley Cooper.

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Mindy Kaling

Mindy Kaling is a celebrated author, actress, and producer known for her sharp wit and engaging storytelling. She gained prominence as a writer and actress on the critically acclaimed television series 'The Office' and later created and starred in 'The Mindy Project.' Kaling is the author of bestselling memoirs, including 'Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns)' and 'Why Not Me?,' where she explores themes of identity, ambition, and the comedic challenges of life. Her writing style is characterized by its candidness, humor, and a relatable voice that resonates with a diverse audience.

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Authors
Mindy Kaling
Published
September 2016
Publisher
Crown
ISBN
0804138168
Language
English
Pages
242
Genres
Self-HelpBiographyPersonal GrowthInspirational Biographies

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I'm just trying to be the best version of myself, while also figuring out what that even means.

Why Not Me?

By Mindy Kaling

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