Getting to 'I Do'
In 'Getting to 'I Do', Pat Allen and Sandra Harmon unveil the secrets of effective communication and emotional intelligence in relationships. The book guides readers through the intricate dance of dating and commitment, providing tools to navigate the complexities of love. With insightful anecdotes and practical exercises, it empowers individuals to understand their needs and desires. Dive into a transformative exploration of self-discovery and connection that challenges conventional dating norms. Discover how to shift from feeling lost in love to confidently finding your ideal partner.
By Pat Allen, Sandra Harmon
Published: 1995
"Love is not about finding the right person, but about being the right person for someone else."
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About the Authors
Pat Allen
Pat Allen is a celebrated author known for her thought-provoking novels that explore themes of identity, community, and personal growth. With a distinct writing style that blends lyrical prose with deep psychological insights, Allen captivates readers with her nuanced characters and intricate plots. Her notable works include "The Family We Choose," a powerful exploration of chosen family dynamics, and "Finding Home," which delves into the complexities of belonging in modern society. A recipient of multiple literary awards, Pat Allen's contributions to contemporary literature continue to resonate with audiences around the world.
Sandra Harmon
Sandra Harmon is an acclaimed author known for her compelling narratives and rich character development. Her notable works include 'The Silent Echoes', which explores the complexities of human relationships, and 'Whispers of the Past', a historical fiction that weaves together personal and collective histories. Harmon’s writing style is characterized by its lyrical prose and emotional depth, often blending elements of mystery and drama to engage readers. With a background in psychology, she brings a unique perspective to her storytelling, making her work both thought-provoking and relatable.
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- Authors
- Pat Allen, Sandra Harmon
- Published
- February 1995
- Publisher
- Harper Collins
- ISBN
- 0380718154
- Language
- English
- Pages
- 276
- Genres
- Self-HelpOvercoming Relationship ChallengesPersonal GrowthCommunication in RelationshipsSex and Relationships
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