It Would be So Nice If You Weren't Here

In 'It Would be So Nice If You Weren't Here,' Charles Grodin delivers a candid and hilariously introspective look at the idiosyncrasies of life and relationships. Through sharp wit and unabashed honesty, he explores the absurdities of the human condition, leaving readers both amused and reflective. Grodin's unique voice takes you on a journey through personal anecdotes and observations that resonate with anyone who has ever felt out of place. This book challenges the norms of communication and connection, inviting readers to consider the humor in discomfort. Prepare to laugh, ponder, and maybe even reconsider the people in your life.

By Charles Grodin

Published: 1990

""Life is a comedy for those who think, and a tragedy for those who feel.""

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Here is an actor's autobiography that transcends genre. Grodin writes about his share of catastrophic setbacks with candor and liberating humor. He dispenses invaluable advice about the art of surviving in the celluloid jungle. Photos.

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Charles Grodin

Charles Grodin was an American actor, comedian, and author known for his unique blend of humor and insight. He was born on April 21, 1935, in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. Grodin gained fame for his roles in films like 'Midnight Run,' 'The Heartbreak Kid,' and 'Beethoven,' but he was also a prolific writer. His notable works include 'How I Got to Be Whoever It Is I Am,' a memoir that reflects on his life and career with wit and candor, and 'The Family Business,' which humorously explores familial themes. Grodin's writing style is characterized by its conversational tone, sharp humor, and honest reflection, drawing readers into his world with charm and irreverence. He remains a beloved figure in both the literary and entertainment worlds.

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Authors
Charles Grodin
Published
January 1990
Publisher
Taylor & Francis US
ISBN
0679731342
Language
English
Pages
560
Genres
Self-HelpSocial CommentaryPersonal Growth

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"Life is a comedy for those who think, and a tragedy for those who feel."

It Would be So Nice If You Weren't Here

By Charles Grodin

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